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Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Just some things I'd like to address

So during my drive home from work last night and to school this morning, I heard some interesting stories.

Number 1. The Biebs cut his hair. Get over it, the boy needed a hair cut. He needs to be able to see when he’s running away hoards of crazed fans. And as much as you don’t want to admit it, the boy has a girlfriend. The beautiful Selena Gomez, he needs to look somewhat older for his lady friend considering she is 18.

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Also, I was listening to 102.5 last night for some reason. I guess some lady has a show on around 8:30pm because there was quite a bit of talking and no music. But the topic was: if you were married, would you let your man sleep with other women if he treated you well, supported you, made you feel good about yourself, was still affectionate with you, so on and so on.

Hmmm, so we are to let our men sleep with other women because they are treating us the way they are suppose to?

There were only two women discussing this. The host and another lady, I think the host has a friend who currently has this arrangement (ahem lets her man sleep around). Well the other lady on the line said she would definitely have this arrangement since it will get her everything she wants. Ya, and it may also get you an STD too you foolish foolish lady. She said that since approximately 50% of marriages end in divorce because of cheating (um, they end for MANY other reasons too…. financial issues being the number 1 reason, not cheating) you might as well let your husband do it to prevent divorce. Also, because one in every 2 men cheat she stated (I don’t believe this ratio to be this high) might as well give them a freebie.

If you want this arrangement, don’t get married. I want trust and safety  when I get married. Damn straight he’s going to treat me well, and I’m not going to reward him with sleeping with other women. I in return will treat him well.

I think the lady currently in this relationship is insecure, she may not know it but I think she is. She probably worries for the day when her husband enjoys another woman’s company more than her own. She may even wonder if its a ruse. They play the happily married couple while the husband goes off doing what he wants.

I’m sorry the whole arrangement or as I like to call it, affair, sounds ridiculous.

Till tomorrow.

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